How To Charm People When You Lack Charm

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Have you ever walked into a room, observed the cliques of people laughing and chatting, and thought, “Oh crap, how do I navigate this so I don’t look like a lonely loser?”

That’s 7th grader’s mentality where your value revolves around your likability or popularity score, but it was one I retained until my 30s due to my perceived lack of…

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