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What It Really Means To Be “Cool”
How do you score on these eight attributes?
Every young sports fan dreams of hitting the game-winning shot. Sometimes, your dream comes true. Mine did. Okay, it wasn’t on a professional level or even on a collegiate level. Heck, it wasn’t even on a varsity high school team.
I was fourteen years old, and it happened at camp. I hit the game-winning shot at a camp-wide competition. I still remember it like it was yesterday.
That excitement of the moment petered out quickly. But the praise and adulation lasted for two days.
For the first and last time in my life, I was cool. Friends and peers looked up to me. The girls held their gaze for that extra split second as I passed them. Camp ended, and so did my “coolness.”
I wasn’t really cool for those two days. The excitement of the moment fooled people into thinking I was someone I wasn’t.
Cool people always play the part, even during the humdrum, day-to-day routine aspects of life.
What does being cool mean? Growing up in the 80s, I thought it meant having the right friends, wearing the right clothes, participating in the right activities and dating someone in your peer group at or above your “level.”…
